We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. A relationship is like that. Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. When you love someone, you love them with their faults.
These qualities and actions that God has set before us in His Word work to build people up and to positively influence others to want to change and become better people. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. To keep their love, you keep pretending - performing. Very healthy reminders that we must show love, appreciate love and shave our love with those who genuinely love us Those who rode the bus with us in the past when we had no limo.
For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life.
It has been rightly said that when couples make assumptions about each other, they are gradually moving towards destruction. It creates self-empowerment and the kind of connections with others we all want in life. A part of disconnecting is recognizing the difference between being desired and being valued. Before him, I may think aloud. Love each other as brothers and sisters.
But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. They are open to gestures of love. At the heart of life lie the relationships we have with other people. What love we fail to give, will be lost for all eternity. When two people experience obstacles separately, it leaves little room to help each other.
Rather, they are results of what we do with our minds: We can choose to transform our minds so that they embody love, or we can allow them to develop habits and false concepts of separation. When someone loves you they will never keep you waiting, give their attention and affection away to others, allow you to continue hurting, or ignore what you have gone through for them. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. We are the ones that make it complicated. This compilation of what geniuses have uttered about troubled relationships is bound to strike a chord with your heart and show you just how you can improve things.
If you can discover the joy of sharing you will simultaneously discover how fulfilling a relationship can be. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Most people love you for who you pretend to be. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn't necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust. When you are going through trying times, be it a tiff with your lover or a serious argument, it can feel particularly lonely and frustrating because it feels like there is no one else in the world who understands how traumatized you feel. They let you risk everything, while they guard their heart and reap the benefits of your feelings. One is silver, the other gold.
Their wisdom is contained in what they are, not their opinions. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind. It is full of mercy and good deeds. We flatter those we scarcely know, We please the fleeting guest, And deal full many a thoughtless blow To those who love us best. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Since you must spend so much time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of the relationship. We are to look past each others faults, be slow to anger, be loving, gentle and humble towards others.
Encourage me, and I will not forget you. You get to love your pretence. If someone loves you and wants to be in your life no obstacle will keep them from you. I pray that these bible verses will help you to strengthen and build up your relationships. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before.
When you know what is most important for yourself and learn to recognize what need is the most important to others, then you can begin to unlock the real reason behind conflict. The truth is this: Real love is simple. And when a girl at your part-time job gives you her e-mail address, it's because she wants you to cover her shift. Quite the opposite is true. Contemporary Indian works of literature make me a happy bookworm, and songs by Coldplay brighten up my day like nothing else! Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.