They are also called psychic vampires or energy suckers. Its good to be aware of people that make you feel drained and exhausted. Orlando, Florida based - our readers are throughout the United States. About 20 years ago I played around with thoughts of the devil and angels in a tug of war with my life. The danger from this sort of vampire arises when it gathers enough information together to enable it to present itself as some sort of leader, figurehead or expert.
Oftentimes, psychic vampires take advantage of those with a high emotional capacity as they take longer to get fed up. If the energy vampire is steering the conversation to darker topics, try and change the topic to something simple and light. You can also visualize a mirror reflecting energy back to them. Until psychic vampires learn how to meet their own needs, they are on a relentless hunt for whoever will meet theirs. Approaching the Energy Vampire with 1, 2 or 3 other people will help decrease the level of effort expended, and attention received. In the case of those unavoidable vampiric relationships, here are some things you can do to minimize the damage.
You can surround yourself in light, put your energy into a golden egg, wear crystals or use essential oils. They are usually highly self-interested and lack empathy. Is this such a different state for the psychic vampire? Projecting its feelings of being bad, ashamed, or even actually evil upon another person or group of individuals. It will take the individuals problems, fears and insecurities on board and offer advice, help and guidance, which often appears to be good and sensible. How to Deal with Psychic Vampires In the main, the intentional vampire depends on the belief that their targets or victims will believe that it is capable of exacting magical revenge. People who, for no apparent reason, became continuously tired, listless and lethargic were often thought to have been visited by vampires or evil spirits.
Before you make the choice to fully remove the energy vampire from your life, try a last-ditch effort of setting some strict boundaries. Work to shut down the voice inside yourself that tells you you're incapable of making your own decisions. You can avoid them or, if cornered, you can avoid their questions. Yes, it can and does happen. You can deal with psychic vampires by identifying psychic vampires in your life, setting firm boundaries with these people, and working on your own sense of self esteem and self worth.
Try out yoga, pilates, team sports, and any type of physical activity that takes place outdoors. And so, the whole mythology of vampirism began to grow. One of the best ways is to take part in activities which both boost your energy and your self-esteem. In fact, they will often defer to the nominal leader of the group but only on unimportant issues such as when and where meetings are to be held and who will bring the wine. However, if you put up with being drained just because you are too afraid to quit your job, then you are paying a very high price indeed for that fear.
This is the main energy system of the body that parasitic entities are after night and day. Its main objective is often to ingratiate itself into a group of people through one member of the group. They tend to drain energy by constantly complaining about problems but refusing to try any potential solutions you suggest. They often invalidate your emotions in order to dominate you or put you down. Unfortunately psychic vampires generally do not or are not able to recognise or realise these traits within themselves. Shadow Work Journal: Go on a journey through the deepest and darkest corners of your psyche.
There are also herbs you can brew into tea or burn as incense. They might also invade physical boundaries, moving in so close you can feel their breath on you. Thank you for allowing me to write this. If so, you might be dealing with a psychic vampire. After about 15 minutes she realized it would be futile and she got up and left the quiet room.
It may feel a little unkind to you at first, but it is not your job to endlessly counsel everyone who taps your energy over and over. This means centering yourself such that you do not get easily affected or swayed by negative energies around you. This inability to consider the consequences of its actions often lands the psychic vampire in places and situations that it had no idea would occur and when this happens, watch out, for its anger can be violent when finding itself in negative situations of their own making because it will take no responsibility for its actions and blame all responsibility on others. I have worked in the healing and psychic world for many years and have taught, read and counseled and written. It can also help if the psychic vampire is made aware of the fact that you are on to them even if you do it anonymously, if you know for a fact who the psychic vampire is.
Think of the kids -- that might change your mind. You feel drained around them. There may have been times where you felt guilty for having negative thoughts about that person — which made you feel even worse. Manipulated by them you begin to become addicted to their presence. Now that you have learned how to deal with negative people, think about the people you face daily. If her posts are loaded with drama and negativity, also proceed with caution! Dealing with this sort of vampire is fairly easy once you have realised what they are because all you have to do is simply refuse to deal with them. You might even say that on one level, she was seeking them out because it was a pattern she was familiar with and then wondering why she had so many in her life.
When your shield becomes fully depleted, it will cease to function. As children, we seek the attention of others in order to feel whole. However, it takes a strong mind to adopt this sort of attitude and, in cases where the powers of the vampire are genuine, more practical defence mechanisms may be needed. So you know a psychic vampire or 3 , do you? Psychic vampires actually like to prey on people who show an overabundant amount of caring towards others. To better your life you need to do something. Recognize the various forms psychic vampires can take.