He explained he knew I was a virgin when we got married yes I know it is hard to believe but it is true. Been together over 20 years. Love and sex are separate things, though there is surely a profound beauty in there communion. Because you deserve the attention, orgasm, and good sex. And how do either of those promote trust or intimacy in a marriage? He also wants me to have sex in front of people. So one thing I am learning here is that many men fantasize about watching their wife with another man. Or your husband just watches.
We have issues sexually in our marriage of 9 years. With the other man, who is just there as a play toy it can be completely different. The other men who have had sex with me have helped me and my husband to be more open about our wants and needs. He says that when men see me their cocks are instantly hard and to be honest I don't walk by many men where I don't get a second, or even a third, look. Cuckolding is hardly an uncommon practice, it's just not much spoken of publicly.
We can help with these kind of questions with private and personal advice for a fee. A Well, there have been cases in which men have had sexual intercourse within a few hours after doing a vasectomy. When my husband tells me that he wants to hear about the other men, how they felt and how I felt when I was with them, it gives me the opportunity to tell my husband what I liked and what made me feel really good. A side note, as stated above that you don't have experience doing such a thing that the first time will be the most awkward. A couple of years ago he asked me about my ex-boyfriends and my past sex life.
You never know what could happen if I do this. That is usually around 10 to 14 days after the start of a period. Chapter 1 -- How Did I Get Here? Thought bluelight was one of the few places that existed not full of judgemental people. In general after doing sex repeatedly with one woman, they do not get attracted with the same woman. I am here because my husband wants me here so that a stranger can fuck me. He has no desire to be with another woman. The other men, that I was having sex with, made me feel a deeper love for my husband.
We moved to a large west coast city where Ben had landed a job as an Engineer for a small construction company. I guess your comments show that sometimes, a threesome can work within a marriage. After all this was more his thing than it was mine. But I doubt it'll hurt your relationship. It is not too late if you are having any second thoughts.
I like spending time in front of the fireplace in a man's arms as I listen to him tell me his life experiences. I have no idea how people would want this, then be able to look at their partner the same. The oil felt great as he worked up to penetrating me very slowly building my level of arousal. I believe practice what you preach. You need to feel loved and satisfied so if this friend who you had sex with is single, trustworthy and willing you might consider seeing him on the side while you plan your exit from your marriage, but I counsel you to have all of your ducks in a row before you file for divorce because your husband is a nasty piece of work , and he is going to make your life miserable. Enjoying sex should not affect your marriage I think you should live happily with your husband. We are leaving it up only as your opnion as we feel you are free to state it.
He never considers my needs at all. There are some men I feel really good about having sex with, mostly because they are not getting sex anywhere else. So he shuts down that fantasy immediately now. I will admit that there are those men who are getting sex. She wants to be taken by the men any way they want her.
Without a lot of therapy there is no hope for him, and even the course of therapy is often destructive to the marriage. And that means a lot to me. That being said, this lifestyle is not for everyone. You aren't in a boat of your own, my friend. Will it end well or is disaster looming? This husband is an unbeliever, which is a difficult situation in and of itself. Even the secular article by Dr.
I am 35 and this kid was barely legal. My ex fiancée was a virgin too and ended up cheating just to experience sex with someone else. And it is a very cool feeling to know that I have done this for so many men. One of the things that makes advice experts, tops in their field, is the ability to look at others and their issues, and not judge or moralize and take yourself and your personal feelings out of the situation. I made him use a condom but somewhere between pounding away at me like an animal and me screaming in pleasure it broke.